Becoming a parent is privilege and a responsibility. You are not in debt to this little life that you have created; however, some might be able to give that gift, but this does not mean that their goal to become parents will not happen. Adoption, while a lengthy, emotional process, is the gift of giving life back to someone who thought they had lost theirs. This is a parenting site for adoptive parents, readers can see a breakdown of the process, how to budget a family, how to bond with a new addition to the family, and how to talk to the child about being adoptive. This is not just a tough choice for you as parents, the child needs to commit to being part of a new family.